I’ve made plenty of mistakes traveling to different countries and cultures. I’m always improving my ability to create boundaries and unlearning fear from my past.

I hope I can share a little bit of knowledge with you!

1. Above all… be KIND! It might be funny if someone is different than you. You might want to judge or make a joke. Try to think about how your actions might make someone else feel. Be mindful of what you say and who you say it to. I know that you are not responsible for how you make others feel, but you can spread more love than hate 🙂
2. It’s okay to say “NO”. The maxim “no” is a complete sentence. Boundaries are helpful. If you don’t have space for 10 people to visit you while you’re living abroad, they can get a hotel or a hostel bed. I grew up being a “yes” girly. Now I’m only saying yes to things I want to do. 
3. Before you take out your phone, ask yourself if the photograph will capture where you are in the moment. The more presently you live, the more authentic your traveling experience will become. Try to feel as uncomfortable as possible. The next time you want to zone out on a subway or walk around town, see if you can do that without your mobile device. Talk to a stranger (when you aren’t in danger obvi) and hang out with locals.
4. Do not disrespect someone’s food etiquette. Just because a person is different, that doesn’t make it wrong.
5. Be frugal, but treat yourself. Life is about finding the balance that works for you. If you walk away from something you want and can’t stop thinking about it, go back to the market and purchase it. My dear friend, Leah, taught me that it isn’t worth it if you do not get $1 per wear out of each piece of clothing. That has stuck with me ever since.
6. You can’t live in fear of the world. The large news channels would probably be unsuccessful if they weren’t sharing the scary stuff. We’re all the same human race. I’ve met great people everywhere!
7. Privilege exists globally. If you’re traveling abroad, you are privileged! Accept it, learn from it, and be the change you wish to see. Please do not ask someone where they are from based on the color of their skin or other features unless you know it won’t upset them. Speak up against injustices without putting yourself in danger. The world will never change if we are all quiet 🙂
8. Begin practicing non-attachment if you haven’t already. Let it all go and flow!
9. Be patient. Take the time to understand. A positive attitude goes a long long way.
10. Do what YOU want to do! Travel solo at least once. Learn about who you are.